Her not being a huge fan of being with people other than Jake and I is the only drawback to me staying at home with her. Her other legitimate reasons are: 1) never took the bottle, so couldn't leave her with a babysitter with no way to feed her until she got the sippy cup down at 3 months 2) no local family 3) dear friends out here who she knows and sees regularly have offered to babysit, but by the time she learned the sippy cup, she also started not being a big fan of being with people other than her parents.
To her credit, she HAS been babysat a couple of times and HAS made it through the service before. So we know she can do it, and the only way for her to get more comfortable with being with other folks is to... be with other folks... which frequently results in a sweet smiley girl becoming a good bit on the grumpy side sometimes...
I'm doing MOPs this fall, and I'm so excited, but she'll be with the other little ones 6 months and up. My goal has been for her to be good and settled so MOPs would be a breeze... but I think it will still be a learning curve for her (i.e. not a fun experience for her) until she gets more comfortable.
Any tips or suggestions? She's so sweet and friendly as long as she's with one of us, so we so desire for her to be that same little girl with other people...